Her father is very upset about it and refuses to meet him. And THAT is the issue you should be dealing with, with the help of a licensed counselor, because solid marriages are based on trust, and there can’t be trust without honesty.ĭEAR ABBY: Our 24-year-old daughter is dating a 28-year-old divorced man who has two kids.
From what you have written, your husband isn’t being completely honest with you.
How should I continue to deal with this issue?ĭEAR WIFE: Your husband may be less emotionally attached to the ex-girlfriends than titillated by their pictures. It makes me believe he has an emotional attachment to these women. I ask him to be honest with me about if he intends to keep them, but he insists he “will” delete them. When I mention it, he claims he doesn’t look at them and doesn’t have time to delete them.
It has been a year, and he still hasn’t done it. DEAR ABBY: A year ago, when I discovered my husband’s porn videos and naked pictures of his ex-girlfriends, he assured me he would delete them.
